Should have stopped at 'handsome'
I had the stepmom of a friend of mine apparently said the following things when she saw a recent video of me. She used to see me all the time, but hasn't in like 4 years so she was interested in seeing what I look like today:
1) "He's so tiny!" -- Ok, this is getting ridiculous. I have had about 6 people make references lately about how 'skinny' I am. Yes, I've dropped about 15 pounds but I'm still 165 lbs folks! That's still a fair size for my height. I dunno, maybe a year of being told I was letting myself go has warped me a bit. Still, I guess I'll take 'tiny' over 'obese'.
2) "He's so handsome!" -- Why, thank you! Always nice to hear, but was there ever any doubt? ;) Granted I did have my toque on in said video, so she couldn't see how I'd chopped my hair so much. I've had some mixed comments about that (but that's another story).
3) "He looks like a Backstreet Boy!" -- ..... say that again? "He looks like a Backstreet Boy!" He looks like a Backstreet Boy?? Oh my friggin god, just castrate me now then! For those that don't know me... Backstreet Boys is about the furthest from any sort of musical or style affiliation that I would ever want to be. I'm sure she meant it as a compliment, but yikes, comments like that make me want to back to my jesus/long hair rocker look. Although internally that conflicts with my 'Dad' role (and my 'that's so nineties' perception).
Someone please tell me that I don't look like a Backstreet Boy, pllleeease.
1) "He's so tiny!" -- Ok, this is getting ridiculous. I have had about 6 people make references lately about how 'skinny' I am. Yes, I've dropped about 15 pounds but I'm still 165 lbs folks! That's still a fair size for my height. I dunno, maybe a year of being told I was letting myself go has warped me a bit. Still, I guess I'll take 'tiny' over 'obese'.
2) "He's so handsome!" -- Why, thank you! Always nice to hear, but was there ever any doubt? ;) Granted I did have my toque on in said video, so she couldn't see how I'd chopped my hair so much. I've had some mixed comments about that (but that's another story).
3) "He looks like a Backstreet Boy!" -- ..... say that again? "He looks like a Backstreet Boy!" He looks like a Backstreet Boy?? Oh my friggin god, just castrate me now then! For those that don't know me... Backstreet Boys is about the furthest from any sort of musical or style affiliation that I would ever want to be. I'm sure she meant it as a compliment, but yikes, comments like that make me want to back to my jesus/long hair rocker look. Although internally that conflicts with my 'Dad' role (and my 'that's so nineties' perception).
Someone please tell me that I don't look like a Backstreet Boy, pllleeease.